wedding vows : My husband & I have decided to renew our wedding vows on our 10thanniversary (August 23, 1998). Now comes the hard part......this ismy 2nd marriage and my husband's first. When we got married, we wentto the justice of the peace, had a 15-min. ceremony, and that wasthat. When we renew our vows, we'd like to do it in a church with atraditional wedding, since my husband never got to have a formalceremony the first time around. Problem is, I don't know WHERE tostart! Should I wear a traditional gown?? Can we use traditionalvows like we would if we were getting married for the first time, ordo we have to use different ones? We're not talking a large weddinghere.....there will be less than 50 guests. Are there any booksavailable that someone here can recommend? We both would have justone attendant. Can we light a memory candle and a unity candle??Someone please help!!!............wickettDoes anyone know the proper *etiquette* on renewing vows? I would like todo so maybe every 10 years or so. I think it is a wonderful idea. I am nottalking about having a big gathering everytime, just a romantic getaway tothe Caribbean or Lake Tahoe, or someplace to do this. IS there a *rule*, Iguess, is what I am asking on the "proper" anniversaries to do this?
wedding vows : --<><><><><&g t;<><><><><&g t;<><><><><&g t;<><><><><&g t;<><><><><&g t;<><><> * * * Heather Gollnow * * * * * * * * *<><><><><> ;<><><><><> ;<><><><><> ;<><><><><> ;<><><><><> ;<><><>On Sat, 28 Aug 1999 10:15:22 -0500, "Heeby Jeeby" wrote:Traditionally, vows are renewed on a "significant" anniversary: tenth,twenty-fifth, fortieth, fiftieth... and so on. They are customarily renewed onceduring the couple's lifetime; more frequent renewals tire the repeat guests andtake on a less-than-significant meaning for the couple. Of course, some couples"renew" themselves to each other every day!However, do not let this spoil your plans for grand anniversary galas. Again,large events are celebrated on significant anniversaries, but there is no limitto the number of galas you may have. In between the "significant" anniversaries,you may indeed host annual anniversary parties, but they are typically moreintimate and less grand.Since being married, and staying happily married, is the toughest job we'veever loved, we reward ourselves with a renewal, just the two of us, every year. It brings back the romance of the first day, and lets us think on the truemeaning of our vows, and how much we love each other. Everyday living tends toeat at that and this is our chance to celebrate another successful year!We are still planning to host a party or two in the future to share our successand happiness with our loved ones, but for now, it is our private celebration.This year, we are going to have fun in a cheesy little chapel in Vegas,complete with a limo ride down the strip and rented wedding gear. (We had todraw the line at Elvis...LOL) We are both anticipating many laughs and sharedmoments...without the kids!In a time when so many marriages can't stand the test of time, I think thatevery anniversary should be a reason to celebrate that yours is still intact.Good luck, wedding vows : LONDON (Reuters) - Pop superstar Madonna (news - web sites) and her filmdirector boyfriend Guy Ritchie are to write their own wedding vows forBritain's showbusiness marriage of the year.Church of Scotland vicar Susan Brown, dubbed ``Holy Spice'' for her modernapproach to religion, revealed that she has given the couple a free hand ontheir vows.Brown, who is to conduct the marriage just three days before Christmas in theScottish Highlands town of Dornoch, said: ''Madonna and Guy are clearly verymuch in love.''``They have chosen to make their own vows and I'm quite happy with that as longas what they want is in reason,'' she told Saturday's Times newspaper.Brown, who roller-skates down the aisle in children's services at DornochCathedral to keep their attention, said of the happy couple: ``They are nowtaking time to consider what they want to say and how they want to say it.''Madonna and Ritchie are to marry in the full glare of media publicity, withtelevision crews from around the world descending on Dornoch for the big day. wedding vows : Another pair of more retiring lovers planning a secret Scottish wedding hadtheir plans blown apart when they ended up on the same ``intended marriage''list as Madonna.Jane Tooze and Andrew Davies were planning a quiet Christmas Eve wedding atromantic Skibo Castle and then break the news afterwards to friends andfamilies.But the banns announcing their marriage were flashed in news photographs aroundthe world when they shared the same noticeboard with Madonna at the Dornochregistrar's office.Jane Tooze told Saturday's Sun tabloid: ``It now looks like we may have to makea few phone calls to family and friends beforehand if they see our names on thebanns. We certainly didn't -- and don't -- want publicity.''Tourist chiefs believe Madonna's celebrity-studded wedding could give Scotlandas big a tourist boost as Mel Gibson's ''Braveheart'' film.Sutherland Economic Development Officer Gordon Todd said: ''The Madonna factorwill hopefully emulate what Rob Roy (starring Liam Neeson) and Mel Gibson didfor Stirling and the Braveheart country.``Over the next two or three weeks the spin-off benefits will hopefully beenormous,'' he added. wedding vows : I still have somewhere a copy of the book from my wedding, whichwas entirely in Latin.I mean *entirely,* except for the few moments when the priestforgot and came out with something in English (this was 1971 andhe hadn't used Latin for nearly a decade).Trouble is, the parts about "I, N., take you, N., to be mylawful wife/husband" appears to be period. Only it goes "EgoJohannes accipio te Mariam in mean legitimam sponsam," etc.,which may sound nicer but your friends will probably notunderstand it. Maybe it will sound nicer *because* they won't understand it.It doesn't matter, really, in period you (unless Jewish) would'veused the standard Church ceremony. You certainly do not have torecreate an entire Mass, and in fact I advise against it, itwould offend both non-Catholics (because it's a Mass) andCatholics (because it isn't real), not to mention being againstG&PD6.Maybe the way out of this is for your Baron to explain (asin-persona as he is wont to be) that you were married quickly andsecretly while traveling in far lands, and he has deemed itappropriate for you to repeat your vows before him and all theassembled populace.
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